“I ain’t getting beyond
shorts and tees these days,” I told somebody wanting to sell saris to me!
The sizeable
mound of clothes made me self-conscious. Did I really need so many? The
ordinary would be easy to give up, but gifts and items of sentimental value
were tough to part with.
Whatever the
reason, I was definitely reassessing everything that no longer fits my life and
existence, especially anything that spells excess. And I began with clothes.
There is sharp
segregation of attires in my wardrobe from casual to formal. Thanks to our
mother for inculcating this habit.
While I never
invested in fancy work outfits, I maintain a conspicuous wardrobe. Items get
replaced only when someone hints at their age! My workwear is functional; suitable
for my age, job profile, body type, and schedule. Thankfully, the past two
years brought some respite. There was just one popular outfit-pyjamas and tees!
Much of my
clothes that lay in a pile on my bed seemed unnecessary. I read somewhere that
the way we dress defines our need to be or feel a particular way on a given
day. I suppose it could be true. Most of my outfits are my decades-long quest
to look like whoever I felt like being at work or otherwise.
I always admire
people who can comfortably cruise in T-shirts and denim. It turns out that the
actual power suit is the liberty to remain effortless in your dressing. The
freedom to stay spontaneous is held by colossal reserves of self-confidence. Of
course, not everyone can pull off that look!
Some wish to
revert to their glamorous selves and resume wearing all that is more stunning
than practical. But the disruption has shifted some of our lifestyles and
transformed how we see ourselves. Personally, I have recalibrated ways to spend
my time and money. In short, I have reimagined how the world should see and
perceive me.
Finally, as
hybrid work is the current trend, I have decided to shift to relaxed wear.
After all, there was nothing less I churned out in the comfort of my Tees.
Whether I wore a branded dress or an ordinary kurta[2] had
no impact on the quality of work. The PowerPoints and spreadsheets looked just
the same!
On the road, my
faithful pocketed denim complements the pandemic paraphernalia. The ultimate
comfort while juggling with the mask, sanitiser, and Aarogya Setu![3]
In my ideal work
wardrobe, a uniform tops my wish list. A few cotton kurtis[4] and
soft pastel t-shirts for the Calcutta summers. Some colourful kameezes[5]
and a smart salwar suit to match the winter air. Also, a versatile thingy[6]
that transforms itself per my desire. And definitely a few sarees. Locking away
the unrealistic ones in a corner like charms that withstood alongside me.
Increased
awareness of conscious consumption and sustainability could make everyday
garments more utilitarian. Should we make space for attires that allow us to
reinvent our looks? Finding ways that are practical and less wasteful.
Can we decode the dress code?

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18 comments:
Excellent.
Smita well put forth, I have to agree to most of them, probably this will help me donate some if not substantial 😊
Aptly put.. The PowerPoint remains the same.
Very well gathered expressions and thoughts. In reality "Dust we are and to dust we shall return", yet we hold onto earthly belongings and crave for more. These last two years have really renewed us all. Let's wake up to this call and spread the word around and share with the less fortunate.
very true, Smita.. I have always found clearing and cleaning clutter collected over the years cathartic. Seems like you're clearing up space not just in your cupboards but also your mind. It's like regaining control over your life.
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Very nicely penned by you and I have been thinking quite the same for sometime now. We have so much of clothes in the stock that we don't need and especially for me, none fits me anymore.
Very well said Smita. I also have many clothes which I never wear but still they are lying in the cupboard. Some of them don't fit me anymore as I have gained lot of fats during the last few years. We need to give away those stuffs to the less fortunate who don't even have minimum bare necessity. Thanks for sharing such thoughts.
Very nicely written..infact, minimalism, conscious consumption, sustainability are the practices which every individual should follow in order to make a better world for our future generations.
Very well written.
When less is more! Thank you for always inspiring. Keep penning you thoughts! 😊
Thought provoking !
As I stand before my wardrobe and wonder at my collection of jamdanis,kanjeevarams,ikkats,benarasis,silks,crepes and organzas acquired over the years...how many of them do I 'require' anymore.
The last two years have taught us tough lessons.
Minimalism is the new mantra.
A great read Smita.Keep writing.
Great write up, smita.. It is no wonder that minimalism and sustainability go hand in hand. There's so much we gather, so much that just becomes clutter. And for what, really? The last two years have taught us what matters and true abundance is not measured in material items.
Enjoyed reading your story of decluttering. With food we often use the adage, 'waste not want not'. I guess it equally applies for all things we use/ consume. But tell me, what do you do with the sentimental attires given say by a loving aunt who is no more or a first gift from a partner?
Very well written. We buy things on impulse or to look trendy. I too have too many clothes piled up in my wardrobe. Last two years while working from home I did not use any of my office wear. Shorts and Tshirts were used heavily. On days when I used to visit office, three quarter track, Tshirt and sneakers were my dress. Now when I am going to office I realized that many kurtas I can't wear because they are not fitting me. Long churidars are now cumbersome as short churidars are more comfortable in Kolkata summer. Need to declutter my wardrobe. Pandemic has taught us great lesson.
Hi dear very well penned these last two years has taught us alot we really need to declutter many thanks in our life not only clothes. Many thanks for inspiring us with such thoughts. I God bless
Hi dear very well penned these last two years has taught us alot we really need to declutter many things in our life not just clothes only Many thanks for inspiring us with such lovely thoughts. God bless
Sorry missed your question. Tough call but still I gave them away and felt happy someone is using them. Like we did with our Dad's clothes. Kept a few memories and gave up the rest.
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