Friday, 8 April 2022

Decode the Dress Code : 3 min read






“I ain’t getting beyond shorts and tees these days,” I told somebody wanting to sell saris to me!


Shifting towards minimalism[1] has been the most significant learning for me from the pandemic. And so, when a dip in Covid numbers elevated our hopes, I decided to de-clutter my cupboard, plan ahead and stay prepared for office to resume.

The sizeable mound of clothes made me self-conscious. Did I really need so many? The ordinary would be easy to give up, but gifts and items of sentimental value were tough to part with.

Whatever the reason, I was definitely reassessing everything that no longer fits my life and existence, especially anything that spells excess. And I began with clothes.

There is sharp segregation of attires in my wardrobe from casual to formal. Thanks to our mother for inculcating this habit.

While I never invested in fancy work outfits, I maintain a conspicuous wardrobe. Items get replaced only when someone hints at their age! My workwear is functional; suitable for my age, job profile, body type, and schedule. Thankfully, the past two years brought some respite. There was just one popular outfit-pyjamas and tees!

Much of my clothes that lay in a pile on my bed seemed unnecessary. I read somewhere that the way we dress defines our need to be or feel a particular way on a given day. I suppose it could be true. Most of my outfits are my decades-long quest to look like whoever I felt like being at work or otherwise.

I always admire people who can comfortably cruise in T-shirts and denim. It turns out that the actual power suit is the liberty to remain effortless in your dressing. The freedom to stay spontaneous is held by colossal reserves of self-confidence. Of course, not everyone can pull off that look!

Some wish to revert to their glamorous selves and resume wearing all that is more stunning than practical. But the disruption has shifted some of our lifestyles and transformed how we see ourselves. Personally, I have recalibrated ways to spend my time and money. In short, I have reimagined how the world should see and perceive me.

Finally, as hybrid work is the current trend, I have decided to shift to relaxed wear. After all, there was nothing less I churned out in the comfort of my Tees. Whether I wore a branded dress or an ordinary kurta[2] had no impact on the quality of work. The PowerPoints and spreadsheets looked just the same!

On the road, my faithful pocketed denim complements the pandemic paraphernalia. The ultimate comfort while juggling with the mask, sanitiser, and Aarogya Setu![3]

In my ideal work wardrobe, a uniform tops my wish list. A few cotton kurtis[4] and soft pastel t-shirts for the Calcutta summers. Some colourful kameezes[5] and a smart salwar suit to match the winter air. Also, a versatile thingy[6] that transforms itself per my desire. And definitely a few sarees. Locking away the unrealistic ones in a corner like charms that withstood alongside me.

Increased awareness of conscious consumption and sustainability could make everyday garments more utilitarian. Should we make space for attires that allow us to reinvent our looks? Finding ways that are practical and less wasteful.

 Can we decode the dress code?



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18 comments:

Gaurav said...

Excellent.

Suman Halder said...

Smita well put forth, I have to agree to most of them, probably this will help me donate some if not substantial 😊

GD said...

Aptly put.. The PowerPoint remains the same.

Liz said...

Very well gathered expressions and thoughts. In reality "Dust we are and to dust we shall return", yet we hold onto earthly belongings and crave for more. These last two years have really renewed us all. Let's wake up to this call and spread the word around and share with the less fortunate.

Unknown said...

very true, Smita.. I have always found clearing and cleaning clutter collected over the years cathartic. Seems like you're clearing up space not just in your cupboards but also your mind. It's like regaining control over your life.

Sougata said...

Good

ArnabBlog said...

Very nicely penned by you and I have been thinking quite the same for sometime now. We have so much of clothes in the stock that we don't need and especially for me, none fits me anymore.

Unknown said...

Very well said Smita. I also have many clothes which I never wear but still they are lying in the cupboard. Some of them don't fit me anymore as I have gained lot of fats during the last few years. We need to give away those stuffs to the less fortunate who don't even have minimum bare necessity. Thanks for sharing such thoughts.

Unknown said...

Very nicely written..infact, minimalism, conscious consumption, sustainability are the practices which every individual should follow in order to make a better world for our future generations.

nauwaq said...

Very well written.

Unknown said...

When less is more! Thank you for always inspiring. Keep penning you thoughts! 😊

Unknown said...

Thought provoking !
As I stand before my wardrobe and wonder at my collection of jamdanis,kanjeevarams,ikkats,benarasis,silks,crepes and organzas acquired over the years...how many of them do I 'require' anymore.
The last two years have taught us tough lessons.
Minimalism is the new mantra.
A great read Smita.Keep writing.

Annajes said...

Great write up, smita.. It is no wonder that minimalism and sustainability go hand in hand. There's so much we gather, so much that just becomes clutter. And for what, really? The last two years have taught us what matters and true abundance is not measured in material items.

Pushpanjali said...

Enjoyed reading your story of decluttering. With food we often use the adage, 'waste not want not'. I guess it equally applies for all things we use/ consume. But tell me, what do you do with the sentimental attires given say by a loving aunt who is no more or a first gift from a partner?

Pavitra said...

Very well written. We buy things on impulse or to look trendy. I too have too many clothes piled up in my wardrobe. Last two years while working from home I did not use any of my office wear. Shorts and Tshirts were used heavily. On days when I used to visit office, three quarter track, Tshirt and sneakers were my dress. Now when I am going to office I realized that many kurtas I can't wear because they are not fitting me. Long churidars are now cumbersome as short churidars are more comfortable in Kolkata summer. Need to declutter my wardrobe. Pandemic has taught us great lesson.

Chandra said...

Hi dear very well penned these last two years has taught us alot we really need to declutter many thanks in our life not only clothes. Many thanks for inspiring us with such thoughts. I God bless

Chandra said...

Hi dear very well penned these last two years has taught us alot we really need to declutter many things in our life not just clothes only Many thanks for inspiring us with such lovely thoughts. God bless

Smita Toppo said...

Sorry missed your question. Tough call but still I gave them away and felt happy someone is using them. Like we did with our Dad's clothes. Kept a few memories and gave up the rest.