When Covid introduced an era of WFH1, we became “performers”. There were singers, painters, bloggers and virtual marathoners among us. The privilege secured us from the worry of losing our jobs. We learnt to appreciate every moment, live consciously and use our spare time. We chanced upon an opportunity to pause and re-examine our blueprint of happiness.
Here are a few lessons I am taking into my new normal.
1. Courage to operate from a point of empathy within my circle of influence. My part-time help lost all her jobs during the lockdown. I made a few small adjustments to help her tide through job loss and inflation.
2. Remain focussed on the tasks at hand. Often in our day to day living we lose track and meander aimlessly. The last two years taught me to divide my day. In each segment, I try to stay focussed. It helps me complete more and provides a good blend to keep boredom away. And when you are not jaded by something, you are more productive.
3. Make a difference to a person or cause – at least at comfortably paced intervals! This reminds me of a story about the starfishes and a little boy on the seashore. Sure he would not be able to save all the starfishes by putting them back into the sea. But, he made a difference to the ones he did.2
4. Utililise my potential. Over the years, circumstances and largely for my own lethargy, I have neglected my talents. Overlooked possibilities and shelved many dreams. Regularising my “blog” is an attempt to restore some of them.
5. To be a minimalist3 as much as possible. I am generally cautious but the lockdowns brought a different dimension altogether. Rationing was imperative not only for scarcity but for safety. Going out even for essentials had to be curtailed when online shopping was not an option. Apart from clothes, I found my cupboard full of toiletries that I collected from our holidays. I decided to use up everything before buying next. The decision was immensely gratifying.
Are these shifts sustainable? Once the masks and sanitisers make an exit, will conscious living last? Will the next "new normal" be better than the one we have left behind? The answer is more complicated than we think, needing an alteration of our outlook and conduct.
I am willing to try, will you come with me?
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39 comments:
Vow
That's great Smita
Well written.
Excellent.
Should follow few points
Excellent
Amazing write-up
Excellent.
Well written Smita
Very well written. We all had to make many adjustments to tide over the difficult times.
All the above points are truly meaningful and to me personally, we have to inculcate into our daily lives, irrespective of pre or post COVID. People who are imbibe with this thoughts will continue to do so.
Every bit a relatable article....and as always a nice article. When there is familiarity in the content it feels so close to the heart. -Indrani
Very relatable and touching. So much of learning to take away!
Relatable, practical, and worth emulating.
Well written and wonderful thoughts. The real challenge lies now with things normalizing as you have rightly pointed out. You should do a follow up article on this every 6 months so see what happened. Keep up the great writing
Great insight Smita. Blessings.
It resonates well with me.An insightful piece,once again.
Feroze Ali
trust you to see 'the good ' in any situation Smita and that's really inspiring ! Such small steps,some simple gestures..and they make a world of difference.
All the statements, your thought process reflects the captivating beauty of your deeper soul...💯💖💐
Very well penned 👌👌👌
Nicely written
Good observations. Well composed. Wonderfully written. Keep writing.
Beautiful
Very well written. Lockdown taught us many lessons. Empathy, being frugal, buying less, learning something new, engaging in hobby to reduce stress. Our housing society had sent circular to pay to maid full salary and most of the residents had done. We also had formed ladies group for meditation. One of the residents would take session. It had healing effect on all of us. Also gave courage and hope to those whose family was battling covid.
So relatable and inspirational. Nature did teach us a lesson or two but at the same time has guided us to the right path into the future. Some beautiful souls, like yourself, have read that message. Thankyou for transmitting the same to us.
Beautifully written. ❤️
The last two years have been tumultuous,yet it has taught us empathy and compassion.Very relatable Smita ! Now we need to heal the world together.Keep writing.God bless.
well said
Wow so beautifully penned thank you so much for inspiring us with your wonderful thoughts. It does make a difference. Indeed the last two years have taught us many things. Now how we face the 'New Normal' is a challenge. Keep sharing these lovely insights. God bless
Indeed a new outlook and habits and to be cultivators over consumers to make this world a better and safe place for one another.
As always nicely penned. Lockdown taught us many lessons and made us realise to use everyday as chance to so something meaningful.
Thank you so much. Yes true.
Thank you so much
Thank you dear friend
Thank you so much
Very nice Pavitra. Hope more people understand the importance of being together. Thank you so much.
Thank you so so much for your appreciation.
Thank you Chandra.
Leaving a word of gratitude for all the Anonymous comments. Thank you for your appreciation and encouragement.
Wonderful dear friend! Very well written👌👌
Well penned from an open mind. Awakened my thoughts too.
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